A student, having achieved a pre-university (i.e., high school) results that would rank him amongst the brightest academically in the country, applied for a scholarship and after the scholarship interview was unhappy that he was not awarded one. This is a scholarship awarded by a university to attract top students to study at that university and this university would have the prerogative to select who they would want as their scholars. Amazingly, the father of this student appealed against the decision! Even more amazing is that this university even has a process to allow for such an appeal and the manager of the Bursary and Financial Aids department had to answer to the Appeal Board. This is like someone, having not received a slice of cake from you, appeal against your decision who you shared your cake with and you have to answer to someone how and why you shared your cake the way you did! I suppose this university has a transparent process to allow any hanky-panky to be expose easily. The mindset of this parent is very similar to a story I once read (unfortunately I cannot remember where I read this anymore) and is certainly something I would like my kids to be mindful of. I have forgotten the details of the story and had to make it up. The essence of the story is however unchanged.
A senior position at a factory became vacant when the incumbent retires and two managers from that factory applied for the post. After being interviewed by the CEO, one of the two applicants was selected. The applicant who was not offered the position felt that he should have been selected. Unhappy he went to see the CEO wanting to know why! So the CEO asked him, "What product is the factory currently running?" He asked the CEO to wait for a minute, step out and came back in with the answer. The CEO than asked "For which customer is this for?" and again he step out and came back with the answer. The CEO than asked "When is this shipment due?" He again went out to get the answer. When he came back, the CEO asked if they are on schedule and again the same thing happen. The CEO than asked him to wait quietly at an adjoining room until he is called. At that point, the CEO picked up the phone and asked the candidate he had selected for the post to come to his office. When he arrived the CEO asked "What product is the factory currently running?" and he got his reply on the spot. The CEO than asked about the customer, shipment date and if they are on schedule and he again got all these answered on the spot. The CEO thank him for the answers and congratulated him for his promotion. When the second person has left the CEO's office, the other candidate stepped into the CEO office and said I now understand.
In the scholarship case above, as usual there is a limited budget and not all applicants can be awarded. Accordingly, the panel interviewed and ranked these applicants. All these applicants are amongst the brightest in the country academically. The top 5 are so mature they behaved like graduates. The best of these has the maturity equivalent of a junior manager. All those applicants who fail to meet the criteria or did not perform well at the interview were rejected. I understand that it would be very difficult to accept how one of the brightest in the country could be rejected for a scholarship. However, in a properly executed selection process, a rejection would mean that the candidate may be lacking something that disadvantaged him/her in the ranking process. It would be better to ask what this is and how to improve instead.
All of us at one time or another would have been rejected for one thing or another. A job application, a promotion, a scholarship, a place at a university, a contract etc etc. When there is more demand than supply, someone will have to lose out. I have to admit that not all selection process and criteria are fair or perfect and whatever the outcome, it is much better to be humble, learn from it and move on.
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